MY EXPERIENCE –
Kuch hi din pehaleki baat oar kuch mahino ki kahani hain. Main ek private company me Sales Manager K Post Per appoint hua tub Maine pehali bar corporate sector me kadam rakha tha.Muze private company k system k bare me kuch bhi malum nahi tha magar phir bhi maine kamar kas li oar system janane laga product ko samazne laga . Usi douraan muze company k training me jaane ka chance mila jo muze mera kaam samazne k liye aachha sunahara chance tha jo muze mila. Ab muze mere advisors ki team banani thi oar unse business nikalna tha to main mera kaam karane me lag gaya. pehale main advisor recruitment pe dhyan dene laga. Main manata tha k ek baar advisors ko Product training de di jaye oar unko samay per update kiya jaye to wo confidance k sath aacha oar bharpur business kar sakenge esliye main recruitments oar training k upper bharosa kark usk madhyam se company me meri ek jagah taiyyar karne laga main ab teji se bhagane laga kaam bus kaam hi karane laga.esi bich muze pata chala ki private sector me performance kliye bahot pressure diya jata hain usi dhage ko pakadkar muzpe aane wala pressure muze chu na sake aisa ground taiyyar karne laga. Aisehi din pe din bitne lage main khudko pressure se bachane kliye mera platform set karne me laga tha. Bilkul usi wakt muze aisa mehasus ho raha tha k mere alag dhang se kaam karne oar niptane style kisiko khatak raha tha.Qnki main es sector me oar company me bilkul naya oar bahar k shahar se 110 km dur aak waha etna aacha perform kar raha tha oar pragati kar raha tha. Esi karan se muze mere kaam me kathinaiya aane lagi phir bhi main unse ladne ki himmat karne laga branch me mare jaise vicharonka oar ek s.m. tha usase main jyada ghul mil gaya phir bhi main waha khudko uncomfortable feel kar raha tha.Actually Main Us branch se dur 3 ghante k phasale oar 110 km per located sangamner me kaam karta tha mera. (Oar Jo mera native place tha) to muze sirf sign karne kliye office jaana padata tha oar office aane jaane me meri sari energy khatam hoti thi usper traveling se main thak jata tha .phir bhi kaam pe dhya deta tha.magar main pahalese outstation maang raha tha magar us maang ko ignore kiya jata tha.Maine en sabhi pareshaniyonse ladte ladte branch me stable hone ka erada banaya tha. Esliye Main mera din subaha 3 bajese chalu karta tha taiyyar hoker subaha 5.30 baje ki bus se subse sabase pehale branch me aak sign kark phir mere kaam ki shuruwat karta tha means clients call,client meetings attained karne jaise kaam me laga jata tha. Mere din k timetable me dopehar ka lunch ye word shamil hi nahi ho pata tha. Kabhi shamil hua to bhul jata tha,Usi samay pressure din b din badhne laga,muze kaam karne main taklif hone lagi main phir boss ko outstation posting maangne laga magar pahale bhi jaise baat ignore ki jati thi thik usi prakar es baar bhi aisahi hua ulta boss muzper rosh vyakt karne laga oar direct outstation denese enkar karne laga . kisine mere bare me boss ko kuch ulta pulta bata diya tha jo boss muzepe ukhad raha tha .Boss ka ukhdana mere uper chidna badha usi wakt pressure bhi badh gaya tha to us karanse main kaam pe oar jyada dhyan dene laga.Magar muze mare kaam me pareshaniya aane lagi phir bhi dilo janse main kaam kar raha tha. Mera basic problem to dusara tha muze office aane jaane esmehi jyada wakt chala jata tha esliye oar ye baat ki jankari muze thi to main mare natural market taraf bhagta tha. .phir bhi mera jyada time traveling me me chala jata tha to es long traveling ki bajaha se main mera time bogas jata mera main thak jata tha es karan achhi taraha perform nahi kar pa raha tha us performance ko sudharne me main mare traveling k baad k bache time me puri taraha se ji jaan se kaam karne me lag gaya magar mere nasib me kya tha I don’t know..! parantu mera boss kabhi bhi meeting bulata oar meeting ka time mere time se kabhi match nahi ho pata tha. phir kisi karan se meeting ko aane me late ho jana ya meeting mis ho jana aisa bar bar hone laga.Din b din pressure badhta chala gaya es over trouble se mera lunch oar dinner kam hote hote ekdam se “dinbhar kaam oar ek wadapav khak phir kaam”aisa ho gaya. Esme mera H.B. very Low means 5.2 pe aa gaya main Bahot weakness mehsus kar raha tha uperse badhte pressure oar tension se 2 baar raste per gir gaya logo ne muze samhala tha. Es pareshanibhare pressure oar trouble ki bajaha se salary acchi hote huea mera performance bhi aacha hote huea bhi mera chalu kaam automatically band hone laga to mera performance dusron ki tulna me automatically zero dikhne laga..oar phir zero performance k bajahase phir pressure me boss raat me bhi phon kark galiya dek business maangta tha .Baad me maine khud office se sampark tod diya. Maine mera mobail hi band kar diya.
Phir ek din sham ko office gaya to office me koi bhi S.M. nahi tha us din office me ek bhi log in nahi hui thi to office ka vatavaran pehalesehi garam tha usme uperse main waha gaya to boss sara ghussa muzperhi aa barasa usne Boss muze performance sudharane kliye kuch bhi mohalat dene ko taiyyar nahi tha.Unhone muze resign dene ko kaha,Main bhi over pressure se tang aa chuka tha muze paisa kam oar satisfaction jyada important lag raha tha phir bhi maine unko mera performance sudharne kliye mohalat dene ki bahot request ki magar phir bhi boss ne muze resign k siva dusara koi option nahi diya. Phir main cabin k bahar aaya comp.pe resign letter type kiya oar raat ko11.00baje resign de diya.(wo month end ka din tha).Resign diya us wakt to mere sabd jaise gale me atak rahe the magar phir bhi resign diya oar acceptance lene k baad boss ko thank you kahane k baad me sabhi
Senior ,Junior S.M. ,back office staff, office ka security staff,office k sare peon’s en subko milkar direct mare table k pass gaya aankh bhar aayee thi lakin phir bhi khudko samhalkar laptop bag uthaya oar chala gaya us wakt muze aisa lag raha tha k mera dimag hi band ho gaya hain.Magar main usi aawastha me Bus Stand pe gaya enquiry ki to pata chala abhi sangamner k liye koi bus nahi hai magar 1 ghante baad shirdi kliye gadi hain.muze nasik ya shirdi jane wali mese konsi bhi gadi mili to bhi main sangamner aasanise aa sakta tha. Magar us din mera dimag thikane pe nahi tha kab gadi aayi oar kab chali gayi eska kuch pata hi nahi chala. Thandi ka mousam tha oar maine sweater bhi nahi pehana tha magar phir bhi muze kuch bhi mehasus nahi ho raha tha.Main mere bag k sath stand pe rote huea baitha tha meri aankh kab lag gayee muze pata hi nahi chala.Jab aankh khuli to charo oar ujala tha subaha ho chuki thi subaha k 6.30am baje huea the. Magar usi wakt mare samane oar ek nayee pareshani ne janam liya tha wo ye k ab main ghar me kya bataunga. Bahot time vichar karane k baad main ghar ko nikla oar dopehar 2.00 baje ghar pahuncha..kal dopeharse maine kuch bhi khaya nahi oar aaj phir dopehar tak kuch bhi nahi muze bhuk hi nahi thi. main fresh hua oar maa ne jub muze pukara “amol khana khane chalo” to maine uska jawab “maine khana kha liya hain” aisa zuth bol diya tha.
Raat ko bhi main sirf ek glass bhar dudh piya oar so gaya.
Mere experience se maine kya jaan liya oar muze kya mila-
1.] muze dikha diya k sabhi ko apne tension,dukhi kaal me/ period me ek samazdar trusted sahare ki means kisi trusted friend bahot jarurat hoti hain.Us jarurat ko kisi shabdome bayan karna muskil hain.
2.] Paisa humari jivan kliye important hain magar jaha satisfaction nahi waha dhansampatti ka koi importace nahi rah jata.
3.] Muze mile do dost jo dilk aache hain.
& YE BHI JAAN LIYA
1.] Aaj kal duniya me falsehood logon ki bahot chalati hain.
2.] Achhai oar Sachhai Ko bahot kam log manate hain oar apna samaj aise logonko koi kimat nahi deta.
3.] Vishwaspurnta se oar sachhai se bartav karane se wo log problem me aa jate hain.
4.] Duniya me bahot jyada log selfish hain oar bahot kam log dil k aachhe oar sachhe hote hain.
REGARDS
AMOL KADAM
SANHAMNER (MAHARASHTRA)(INDIA)
Email-amolkadam36@rediffmail.com
THANKS
HUME KHUL K JINA HAIN...!